My Confidence Secret – How To Build Self Confidence ?

Apurva Parwal

Power of believing. For the world to believe in you, you need to believe in yourself. Your mind is a great weapon, lets engineer to work in your favour not against you.


Don’t kill your own confidence by not believing in yourself

Let me share secret to my confidence

  • In order to get better at something you need to BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE BETTER.
  • The key to confidence is walking into a room and ASSUMING EVERYONE LIKES YOU.
  • If you are walking in a new place, watch you body language. WALK INTO THAT PLACE as if YOU OWN THAT PLACE. Your body will automatically mirror your thoughts.
  • CONFIDENCE ISN’T THINKING YOU ARE BETTER than everyone else, It’s realizing that you have no reason to compare yourself to anyone else.
  • PRESENTATION MATTERS. Be it a work presentation or your own appearance, the presentation is an important factor. You should always dress and prepare according to the occasion.
  • Studies have shown that people who DRESS WELL feel better about themselves and are generally happier.
  • DON’T SEEK VALIDATION from anyone. They don’t know your journey.
  • You CAN NOT MAKE EVERYONE HAPPY. Even the CREATOR OF THIS UNIVERSE “God” could not accomplish that.
  • FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT. Fake confidence until you build your self confidence.
  • IGNORANCE IS BLISS, Start ignoring toxic people and toxic feedback.
  • STOP COMPLAINING, if something bothers you either work towards its solution or stop complaining about it.
  • COMPLAINING doesn’t SOLVE THE PROBLEM. START TAKING ACTION towards the issues in your life.
  • Understand the fact that YOU ARE YOUR OWN BEST FRIEND. Stop finding people just to spend time with.
  • DON’T COMPARE YOUR SELF WITH OTHERS. They are not you. You are not here to be a copy of others. For example, If I say “I want to be like MALALA. I being unfair to myself and her, I should be a better version of APURVA not her since her journey of life is completely different from mine.
  • SPEND TIME IN UNDERSTANDING YOURSELF, your likes, dislikes, your rage and your triggers. It’s important to know who you are, in order to make progress.
  • Do a SWOT analysis of yourself.
  • DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY, not what makes others happy. For example, I spend quality time with my mom not cause it makes her happy. I do it for myself.
  • When you DO THINGS FOR RIGHT REASONS you will never feel obligated.
  • Imperfection makes us who we are, so don’t shy away from your own imperfections. For example, after a huge weight loss I have loads of loose skin on different parts of my body. I am okay with this imperfection cause it’s a outcome of my hardwork.
  • CELEBRATE YOUR VICTORIES no matter how big or small it is. For example, I went for holiday last week. It’s a victory for me. I have taken out time to do something I love.
  • Always remember, Confidence is contagious. So is lack of confidence.

“When you have a lot of confidence and you feel like nobody can beat you, it’s game over for everyone else.”

– Jason Day


8 thoughts on “My Confidence Secret – How To Build Self Confidence ?”

  1. Once again an article chuck full of information we can actually use and apply!!!!!! So many times we are our own worst enemy, and only we can make the change. Blessings.


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